Sunday, March 6, 2011

{Guest Post} Does anyone else have an issue with their ex partners slag reading their daily Tweets and Blog entries, and then reporting back to the ex? Or am I just the lucky/unlucky one?

Does anyone else have an issue with their ex partners slag reading their daily Tweets and Blog entries, and then reporting back to the ex? Or am I just the lucky/unlucky one.

Well I do, and you know what I am sick of it, so stop it _ _ _

Not at all content with helping destroy my family with the sordid affair, she has the so called “prize” (my ex) but she continues to stalk my Tweets and Blog entries and report back to my ex on a daily basis. Get a life of your own you stupid slag; you have my ex so move on like I have.

WTF is that about, do I have to name her to get her to back off? Trust me I will if she continues, isn’t it enough that a young woman (if you could call her a woman, I have harsher words that are more fitting for the type of gutter tramp she is), wants to be with a man twice her age.

You have him, now leave me and my family alone…….

Saturday, February 5, 2011

{reader submission} Dealing with Separation

I have been told the stages of anger, resentment, sadness, loss and denial will apparently give way to acceptance….Hmmm bring it on then.

2010 saw the end of relationship that I had thought would be a part of my life forever, how wrong can you be.
What have I learnt from it all?
· That you just cannot trust some people.
· Betrayal hurts.
· As long as there are women who are willing to cheat with a cheating man, there will always be cheating men.

· They (the women the men cheat with) are, like Whoopie said in the Color Purple,” just a place to do his business". Oh how true that is.

· That I need to take special care of myself during this time and spend more time loving me.

· Show more compassion to myself as I heal my heart and soul.

· And countless other things, too many to list.

To have given so much of myself to another person only to have them give themselves to another woman is a really painful thing to deal with, but it is a blessing that they now can be each other’s poison and no longer mine. The women these men cheat with have very little self worth and are very insecure. Is it fun to be a sex toy for a cheater? I’d say not too good for the self esteem.

I ask the other woman; don’t you realize he belongs to someone else? Isn’t his cheating an indicator of how much he can’t be trusted and he is probably still having sex with his partner? This doesn’t mean he loves you – it means he’s a liar, indecisive, cowardly and a cheat. What’s wrong with finding a man who isn’t with someone else? Is a man who is taken all you can get? He is going to cheat whether the relationship is good or bad. The other woman needs to realize he wasn’t in a bad relationship; that he is a manipulator who doesn’t care who gets hurt in his quest for (self) whatever drives a man like him.

In my eyes there are absolutely no reasons to cheat, but some people have no values, morels and self worth and will always find another person who is as low in morals as they are to cheat with.

There are lessons to be learnt from everything in life, separation included. I still believe in love so all is not lost.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Mother In-law is favouring one child

My MIL is constantly favouring my daughter over my son. She takes on outings to the movies, out for lunch, shopping, buys her things, and when we go on family outings always asks her to ride in her car. My son is getting no attention at all, and it's really unfair.

MIL will come and pick up Daughter, and Son has to ask me why he can't go to, and then he is sad and I have to try and do extra special things at home with him to try and make up for it.

She thinks he is a bad child, and even once asked me why I haven't taken him to a child psychologist!

He is such a sweet child, and is only one year younger than my daughter. And now my daughter is being a spoiled brat when she is at home!

Friday, January 21, 2011

{reader submission} Stop questioning me!

Dear Husband,

I don’t question you when you friend random women on Facebook and Twitter. I trust you.

But what annoys the hell out of me is that you log onto Twitter, read through my twitter feed and then the questions start.

“Who’s he?!”

“What does he mean by that?!”

“What did YOU mean by that tweet?!"

Husband, your insecurity is a pain in the ass and you need to stop it.

I don’t know why you are like that because I have never given you any reason not to trust me.

Love, your ever patient wife.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

{reader submission} Dear Mother in Law

Dear Mil,

Yes, you are very generous. Yes, you give the grandkids lots of presents.

We appreciate every single item you give them.

We are sorry that we disappoint you so much with the gifts we give you. We spend so much time and money looking for something for you, but will never have the spare funds to spend the $200+ you expect should be spent on you each Christmas, Easter, Mothers Day and Birthday.

Most grandma's are happy to receive the kinder tea towel, a hand print or handmade gift. Your disdain is clear. That is not what you want.

You want us to guess what pricey item you currently want to show off to your friends.

It is a shame you can't fit it in your schedule to attend the children's birthdays.

Maybe next year I will get you a gift from Oxfam, you will be devastated, it will nearly ruin your Christmas.

Lovely hugs and kisses

Your DiL

PS I have never asked, but did you grow up near Fountain Lakes?

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

My son’s girlfriend is rude

When I started going out with my (then) boyfriend, if I stayed at his house, I offered to help cook dinner for his mum, or help wash up after dinner. I made a point of taking some time to chat with his parents.

My son’s girlfriend comes to our house. They lock themselves in his bedroom and only come out to get food. Or go to the toilet. They are both 18.

This has always annoyed me and I have spoken to my son about it a number of times but to no avail.

Recently the girlfriend decided to tell one of my other children that she would have more respect for me and my husband if we “got off our asses and got jobs”.

I don’t need to explain myself to a bitchy little 18 year old but my husband is on disability pension due to injuring his back at work. Yes, we receive government payments to help us but I also receive income comes from various online jobs. I don’t plan to go back into the work force until my youngest child starts school. Like I did with each of my children.

Maybe she should get onto her boyfriend (my son) to get a job. Because sure as fuck, the “nagging” I do isn’t working.

I don’t know who she thinks she is, thinking that she can say that to my children. Did she think that my children would not tell me what she says about us?

She is not welcome in my home until she apologies for being so disrespectful.

Monday, January 3, 2011

{reader submission} My bum, it runs

My bum it runs
often and often
there is no puns.
It just runs and runs and runs
some more, like a constantly
open door.

It makes me sad.
I must consider what
and which food,
can be had.
Pancakes for breakfast,
as special treat. Is in,
then out before the I finish the last.
My bum it runs and runs and runs
some more, like a constantly
open door.

Drugs I carry, but the runs
they do not tarry.
Did the toilet I marry?
Good toilet paper is vital,
with the cheap stuff,
you should not trifle.

My bum it runs and runs and runs
some more, like a constantly
open door.
Should I decline to attend
your event or occasion
please I do not intend
to offend.
My gut it dictates,
where, when and how
often I eat with mates.